By Bob Garver As much as I enjoyed the fun, exciting trailers for “Argylle” that made excellent use of the film’s eclectic cast, there was one element that told me the movie was in serious trouble. Amongst shots of the cat belonging to spy novelist Elly Conway (Bryce Dallas Howard), onscreen text insisted that, “Once you know the secret, don’t let the cat out of the bag.” In other words, there’s a big twist in this movie. It’s not worrying that this spy movie has a big twist, given the genre it would be weird if it didn’t. It’s worrying that the movie needs to advertise itself like that, putting so much emphasis on the twist that it can’t possibly live up to the hype. Aside from the fact that announcing the twist ahead of time kills the element of surprise, the film is also basically saying that what you see in early stages is untrustworthy, since the twist is going to turn everything on its head eventually. Sure enough, the twist is laughable and killed the investment I had in the movie up to that point. I won’t go into spoilers, but nothing made me regret my questioning of the advertising tactics. Elly Conway writes spy novels about Agent Argylle (Henry Cavill). Other characters include his sidekick (John Cena), his techie (Ariana DeBose), and his nemesis (Dua Lipa). The trailers made no secret that these characters are all fictional(ish), but they did exaggerate how much the four actors are in the movie. Elly soon finds out, via real spy Aiden (Sam Rockwell), that what she has written corresponds to actual events in the world of international espianoge. She has written about things that have actually happened, and may be able to write about things that are going to happen. Some powerful people want to know what Elly’s going to write next, including Aiden’s boss (Samuel L. Jackson) and evil agency-runner Ritter (Bryan Cranston). Even Elly’s mother (Catherine O’Hara) is dying to know, but that’s probably just gentle motherly goading, or is it? Either way, this is a lousy time for Elly to develop a sudden case of writer’s block. The confusing nature of the movie’s reality makes for a confused tone, which makes for confused actors and confused performances. Cranston, in particular, doesn’t seem to know when to play things straight or over the top, so he settles for an off-putting middle ground. Howard, to her credit, is giving a proper blockbuster performance, it’s just a shame this movie is doing so poorly that it will never achieve blockbuster status. I liked some of the action scenes. The hot opener, set within the world of Argylle, is quite crisp. Two late-in-the-movie shootouts, one with bright colors, one covered in black, indicate that this movie isn’t entirely ruined by its script. But those sequences are maybe 19 combined minutes in a movie with a 139-minute runtime. The other two hours are devoted to a convoluted story that made me squirm with impatience. Not to get to a big reveal, mind you, just for the movie to be over. There’s a better movie out right now where the protagonist is an author and the action occasionally blends their writing with reality. “American Fiction” is enjoying a nice little bump at the box office thanks to its recent Best Picture Oscar nomination. That movie follows a Black writer (Jeffrey Wright) who, in the margins between drama in his personal life, sarcastically submits a racially-degrading manuscript that turns into a surprise bestseller. The jokes about well-meaning-but-insensitive white people get stale eventually, but it’s still a much smarter and more engaging movie than “Argylle.” “Argylle”: C- “American Fiction”: B- “Argylle” is rated PG-13 for strong violence and action and some strong language. Its running time is 139 minutes. Contact Bob Garver at rrg251@nyu.edu.

You probably woke that fateful morning, assuming everything would probably run along on the accustomed track. Never dreaming – or nightmaring – that particular day would be so much different than you expected. After all, even with all of life’s up and downs, usually a person can know what to reasonably expect. You eat, sleep, communicate with loved ones, work your job and attempt to find pleasure in hobbies or with your friends as much as possible.  Oh sure, there are the really bad times. Everybody knows those come along, and you just muddle through them the best you can. But basically, life runs along fairly consistently. Notice I didn’t write that it runs wonderfully. Yours may be boring you of out your skull. Or you may have a life that has a lot of heartache and turmoil threading through it on a consistent basis. But still, it’s yours and you pretty much know what to expect. But then, the horrible day happened. At some point an explosion erupted in your life that changed everything. Someone deliberately told vicious future-destroying lies about you, and now you may be living with a badly damaged reputation. Or, someone looked you in the eye and smiled while they quietly worked to ruin your life. Maybe you have actually suffered at the hands of an enemy who had your death in mind – and nearly accomplished their goal. In any case, now you are left with the results of the horrible pain. And trying to find a way to do one of two options: A) Feed your anger and find a way to get revenge, even if it takes the rest of your life. B) Or, find a way out of the pain and anger, and go on to live a successful and happy life. The first choice has you constantly reliving your hurt, and that is exactly what they want. But folks, that person who deliberately hurt you isn’t worth two minutes spent concentrating on their memory. That is time subtracted from simply enjoying your life. The other option is by far the best one. It’s great revenge. Remember, their goal was to hurt you badly, and destroy who and what you are. So, finding ways to laugh while you go on successfully with your life is great revenge. Because they lose. Despite everything that was done to you, you found a way to win. Even if it means living with permanent damage done to your dreams, finding a way to enjoy your life is still the better choice over spending your time plotting a way to exact revenge. That will only cause you more obsessive, bitter hurt. Means they win. Commit to letting go, and let God exact His revenge. Because He promises He will. Whether He uses our country’s justice system or through an act of God Himself – that is His business. But He WILL give you revenge - one way or another.

MDWFP's Mississippi Museum of Natural Science will celebrate Mississippi Arbor Day during the "S.T.E.M., Leaves, and Trees" event on Friday, February 9, 2024, from 9 a.m. – Noon. Visitors will experience S.T.E.M. crafts, games, and displays focused on Mississippi trees and their past and present roles in our environment. Live trees will also be given away while supplies last. "Our visitors will enjoy fun, hands-on activities like identifying leaves, dissecting logs, walking through a giant soil tunnel, and taking a guided nature trail hike with our Museum Conservation Educators," explains MMNS Director Charles Knight. Visitors can also explore the Museum's permanent events, aquariums, Dinosaur Trail, and the "Attack of the Bloodsuckers" special exhibit. The Rebecca Cravat Chapter, National Society Daughters of the American Revolution (NSDAR) will dedicate a Live Oak tree and marker recognizing the Chapter's 60th Anniversary and commemorating the 250th Anniversary of the United States of America. The marker will recognize Choctaw Revolutionary War Scouts who fought for American independence. The dedication will begin at 9:30 a.m. in the Museum's auditorium. After their Museum visit, guests can take Spotter's Adventure Trail to the LeFleur's Bluff Playground and see Maggie – a black bear sculpture carved from a tree on the Playground by award-winning chainsaw artist, Dayton Scoggins. The Museum is located at 2148 Riverside Drive in Jackson, Mississippi in LeFleur's Bluff State Park. This event is included with Museum admission or with Mississippi Museum of Natural Science Foundation Membership. For Field Trip or Group Reservations, please contact Yolanda.hawkins@mmns.ms.gov. Museum admission is: $8 for adults, $6 for youth ages 3-18, and $7 for senior citizens ages 60 and up. Visitors can get more details about the Museum and plan their visit at www.mdwfp.com/museum or by calling 601-576-6000. Connect with us at: www.facebook.com/msnaturalscience, www.instagram.com/MSScienceMuseum, and www.twitter.com/MSScienceMuseum.

Governor Reeves declared February 11-17, 2024, Spring Severe Weather Preparedness Week in Mississippi. Last year, Mississippi had 61 confirmed tornadoes, including one EF-4 and two EF-3 tornadoes that touched down during the March 24th outbreak. That storm system moved across the state, claiming the lives of 22 Mississippians. “We have seen just how important it is to prepare for severe weather and how having a plan before a disaster can be lifesaving,” said Governor Tate Reeves. “I encourage all Mississippians to review their severe weather preparedness plan, especially as we approach Spring.” “So many lives were lost last year due to severe weather. All families should have a plan of action when severe weather warnings are issued. It’s important for everyone to have multiple ways to receive alerts and have a pre-identified safe place to go,” says MEMA Executive Director Stephen McCraney. “I encourage all Mississippians to use this week to prepare for the upcoming spring severe weather season.” Topics for Spring Severe Weather Preparedness Week: The Mississippi Emergency Management Agency is partnering with the National Weather Service to highlight different types of severe weather and ways to prepare for the upcoming spring severe weather season. MEMA urges all Mississippians to have a disaster supply kit stocked with food and water year-round. Knowing a safe place to seek shelter when severe weather is in your area is also essential. Each day of Spring Severe Weather Preparedness Week, MEMA will use informational graphics, videos, and engaging content on these topics. Keep up with Spring Severe Weather Preparedness Week by visiting MEMA’s Facebook and Twitter pages and MEMA’s YouTube page. Your local National Weather Service offices will also share additional severe weather information. Four National Weather Service offices cover Mississippi: Jackson, Memphis, New Orleans, and Mobile. MEMA’s Disaster Guide also has additional severe weather preparedness tips: click here.

Super Bowl Sunday is one of the worst days of the year for motor vehicle crashes, including those due to drunk driving. The hours just before and just after the game are the most dangerous. “Hosts for Super Bowl parties should follow a few simple steps to ensure a safe Super Bowl Sunday,” said Ryan Wilson, operations manager at AMR Central Mississippi. “Party hosts, bartenders and servers have a responsibility to help keep drunk drivers off the road. By fulfilling that responsibility, you’ll possibly save lives, prevent huge legal and medical expenses, keep you out of jail and avoid lifelong guilt, shame and regret.” Wilson advised party hosts to: Limit your own alcohol intake so you can make proper decisions for your guests As each group of guests arrives, identify the designated driver right then. Take that driver’s keys and be sure the driver is sober when leaving. Remember:  A designated driver is not the person who drinks the least alcohol, but someone who drinks zero alcohol. Serve plenty of food. Place non-alcoholic beverages such as seltzer, soda and water alongside alcoholic beverages. Serve alcoholic and non-alcoholic drinks in the same size and shape glass. Provide non-alcoholic “mocktails,” which can be a fun alternative to alcoholic beverages. There are dozens of mocktail recipes online. Stop serving alcohol at the end of the third quarter (the same as some NFL stadiums) and begin serving coffee and dessert.  But keep in mind:  Coffee does not make one sober. If a guest has been drinking but has no designated driver, offer to call a ride-share service or a taxi or invite the guest to sleep over at your home. Take the guest’s keys. The guest might grumble but will thank you later. As guests leave, make sure everyone is buckled up.  Seatbelts are the best defense against impaired drivers in other vehicles. Wilson also urged party hosts to prevent falls by clearing walkways, porches and stairs and providing adequate lighting.  He said, “WUI (walking under the influence) can also lead to serious injury.” Operating in 20 Mississippi counties, AMR companies are the state’s busiest ambulance services.

By Kara Kimbrough I’ve previously shared my love of visiting New York City.  However, traveling to the chilly island surrounded by water in the dead of winter, aka January, was not something I’d seriously considered. After a visit last month, it may now be one of my favorite times to visit. The reason for a trip during the off-season? I was selected to attend TravMedia’s International Media Marketplace (IMM), a networking event on steroids at NYC's Javits Center. TravMedia connected hundreds of the world’s leading travel and tourism professionals with journalists like myself. How could I decline, especially when I’d have a few extra days to experience new parts of the city, meet up with friends and dine at favorite restaurants?  Cold and rainy weather aside, I was off for the Big Apple. In the interest of time, I’ve condensed into bullet points a week’s work of exploring centuries-old landmarks; dining at a multitude of restaurants; juggling the challenges of vacationing on a budget and most of all, enjoying one of the best destinations in the world. As always, feel free to email me if you’d like more information about any topic, including how to vacation in NYC without spending a fortune. · Bird’s eye view – One of my favorite places in NYC is located 850 feet in the air. Top of the Rock, found at the pinnacle of 30 Rockefeller Plaza’s 70th floor, delivers spectacular, unobstructed views of the city skyline. With terraces facing east, west, north and south offering glimpses of Central Park, East and Hudson Rivers, Queens, New Jersey and the Empire State Building, Top of the Rock’s panoramic sights make it, in my opinion, the ultimate observation deck in NYC. Once you descend past the stunning 35-foot chandelier containing 14,000 crystals, spend time roaming around the nearly century-old Rockefeller Center complex. In addition to stunning architectural features, the complex contains studios for NBC News, The Today Show and late-night talk shows. Underneath it all is a winding area filled with shops and restaurants. Lunch at open-air restaurant Five Acres yielded an average burger and fries but superb people-watching. Equally as outstanding in its own right, the Empire State Building’s two observation decks (86th and 106th floors) offer unmatched vistas of NYC and a panorama stretching across six states and views up to 80 miles away. Touring the building billed as the world's most magnificent Art Deco skyscraper and tallest building in the world for nearly 40 years after its completion in 1931 was a major highlight. In 2019, a $165 million renovation enhanced room after room of colorful interactive, historical exhibits and breathtaking architecture highlighted by luxurious marble, gold and glass walls, floors and ceilings. It's a stunning masterpiece that's not to be missed. · Lower Manhattan is a must – Two must-visit places in the southern portion of Manhattan and beyond are the 9/11 Memorial Museum and the State of Liberty. The 9/11 Memorial Museum, built on the site of the Twin Towers destroyed on Sept. 11, 2001, is an unparalleled repository of more than 74,000 artifacts documenting the fate of victims, survivors and first responders of attacks of the buildings in 1993 and 2001. It’s impossible to describe the enormous collection of material evidence in the form of destroyed first responders’ vehicles, personal items, historical records, video and phone recordings of first responders and victims and films depicting a myriad of events surrounding the attacks. Outside, two one-acre pools with the largest man-made waterfalls in the U.S. occupy the footprints of the Twin Towers, symbolizing the loss of life and the physical void left by the attacks. The names of 2,983 victims are inscribed on 152 bronze sheets surrounding the memorial pools: A visit to the museum is both emotional and sobering but something every American NEEDS to experience. To lighten the mood, walk a mile or so down to Battery Park and board the Statue of Liberty Ferry for the short ride out to Liberty Island. I’ve visited the island a few times now, but it’s still thrilling. Walking around the island inhabited by Canadian geese and gazing up at the magnificent statue that will be 100 years old this October never gets old. Also on the grounds are a professionally-designed museum, observation deck, café and gift shop. ·  World’s best cuisine – I don’t have enough space to describe the outstanding cuisine found in NYC. Instead, I’ll highlight favorite meals, food items and restaurants from this trip: 1. Carlo Bake Shop’s breakfast sandwich, a delicious combination of a crunchy homemade croissant, fried egg and bacon; melt-in-your-mouth cherry cream cheese turnover; famous black and white iced cookies and other homemade pastries. (Buddy Valastro of Cake Boss fame is the owner). 2. Junior’s Restaurant’s mile-high pastrami sandwich 3. Bubby’s James Beard’s sour cream pancakes topped with blueberries with a side of Canadian maple syrup. Hands down, the best pancakes (and syrup) I’ve ever tasted in my life! 4. Crab cake, salad and homemade olive bread at Bryant Park Grill 5. Becco Italian’s white bean hummus, olive bread and Bolognese lasagna 6. Grand Central Station's Oyster Bar's shrimp cocktail and steak. I'm still sad the restaurant was out of Hudson Valley apple pie... Last, but not least – I recommend the location of Hilton New York Times Square, both for its easy walking access to the subway, attractions, restaurants and adjacent Target for last-minute items; Delta Airlines for getting me seamlessly to and from Mississippi not just on time, but early both ways; my new Rollink Flex Vega Carry-On that glided smoothly through airports and folded inward to save space upon arrival; ONN cell phone power bank, a $20 Walmart find that saved my life when my battery ran low and most of all, New York City Tourism + Convention’s CityPASS. It provided access at a significant cost-savings to the main sites I wanted to visit and alleviated waiting in long lines. One scan of the app on my phone sent me to the head of the line and in some cases, through the VIP entrance. I don't have permission to share James Beard’s famous sour cream pancake recipe or Becco’s Bolognese lasagna but a quick google will take you to online recipes. Or email me and I'll share them with you. I was able to recreate Becco’s white bean hummus, just in time for the Super Bowl. I enjoyed my trip immensely, but to borrow Dorothy's famous phrase, “There’s no place like home” …and that goes for Mississippi. White Bean Hummus 2 medium cloves garlic 1 small handful fresh parsley, about ⅓ cup1 green onion, cut into 1-inch pieces 1 ½ cups cooked cannellini beans or 15-½ ounce can cannellini beans, drained 3 tablespoons tahini 1 ½ tablespoons fresh lemon juice, about ½ lemon 1 teaspoon kosher salt Extra virgin olive oil for drizzling With a food processor running, add garlic, parsley and scallion. Process until minced – about 15 seconds. Add remaining ingredients and process until smooth and creamy, a full 2 minutes. Taste and adjust seasonings. Drizzle with olive oil and serve. Perfect with chips, crackers and bread. Kara Kimbrough is a food and travel writer and travel agent from Mississippi. Email her at kkprco@yahoo.com.

Any Mississippian who has yet to register to vote must register by Monday, February 12, in order to vote in the 2024 Primary Election. Races on the March 12, ballot include offices of President, U.S. Senate, and U.S. Representative. To register, applicants may: register in-person at their county circuit clerk's office by February 12 mail-in new voter registration application with a postmark of February 12 Circuit clerk offices will be open on Saturday, February 10, from 8:00 a.m. to noon for in-person registration. Individual circuit clerk information may be found on My Election Day by entering a physical address. Voters who have not yet reached the age of 18 at the time of the March Primary Election may vote in the Primary Election so long as he/she will reach the age of 18 on before the date of the 2024 General Election. To verify voter registration status or update voter registration information, Mississippians may utilize YallVote.ms. For questions, call the Elections Division at (800) 829-6786, email ElectionsAnswers@sos.ms.gov,or visit YallVote.ms.

The annual Dixie National Parade will be held on Saturday, February 10, 2024, at 10:30 a.m. in downtown Jackson. This beloved event that traditionally kicks-off rodeo competitions will include an array of rodeo queens, marching bands, decorative floats, car and tractor clubs, riding groups, the famous Dixie National Wagon Train and much more. “I want to invite everyone to come out to the Dixie National Parade as we celebrate ‘Mississippi – Where Music was Born’ as this year’s theme,” said Mississippi Commissioner of Agriculture and Commerce Andy Gipson. “With special appearances from various, unique participants and local celebrities as parade judges, this event is the perfect outing that the whole family will enjoy.” Beginning at the corner of Mississippi and Jefferson streets, the procession will travel down Mississippi Street, circle the State Capitol, and finally take a left onto Amite Street before returning to the State Fairgrounds. Spectators are encouraged to watch from the Capitol grounds near President, High and West streets for the best views. Parking will be available at the Capitol grounds and surrounding parking lots. Local celebrity and distinguished judges will determine the first and second place winners within each category of parade participants. This year’s judges include WLBT News Anchor Maggie Wade; former Miss Dixie National Rodeo and current Boswell Media Marketing Specialist Lisa Moore; Mississippi 4-H President Ty Franklin; and Mississippi FFA President Ashton Luke. Following the parade, Mississippi’s Miss Hospitality Abney Grace Pittman will present awards to the winning parade groups at the Mississippi Farmers Market at 12:30 p.m. For more information and a full event schedule on the 59th Dixie National Livestock Show and Rodeo, visit www.dixienational.org, download the mobile app and follow the Dixie National Livestock Show & Rodeo on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.

Do you have concerns about trash  in around Hinds County? Then be sure to attend the upcoming community meeting with District 4 Supervisor Wanda Evers and WM Waste Management. It is Feb 6th at 6PM Belmont Baptist Church 14011 Hwy 18 in Raymond, MS Pastor Tonie Criser.

By Bob Garver Not every week brings a shiny new blockbuster for me to review. Sometimes I need to look to the holdovers. Sadly, I’m not referring to “The Holdovers,” one of the best films of 2023 that you should definitely check out if it’s playing in your area. I’m referring to whichever movie did the best at the weekend box office that I haven’t already reviewed, even if it isn’t that new and didn’t do that well. This week that movie is “Anyone but You,” which came in fifth place at the domestic box office in its sixth weekend. While much better Christmas releases like “The Color Purple” have slid down the chart since the holiday season, this one has managed to stay in the top five. It has actually made more money than any movie to open in 2024, but that’s with a multi-week head start. However else I feel about the movie, I can understand its consistent performance, as its tone is a light and agreeable one that makes it a good compromise movie for couples and groups of friends. The movie, based on Shakespeare’s “Much Ado About Nothing,” follows attractive singles Ben (Glen Powell) and Bea (Sydney Sweeney) as they have an adorably awkward meetup in a coffee shop that turns into a date. Clearly they both want a romantic relationship, but the prospect scares them, so they sabotage what they have. They try to forget about each other until Ben’s friend Claudia (Alexandra Shipp) gets engaged to Bea’s sister Halle (Hadley Robinson) and they’re forced to be around each other for the wedding in Australia. And yes, it’s the kind of lavish movie wedding that will make everyone in the audience feel insecure about their own ceremony, or lack of one. Since even the other characters can see that Ben and Bea are perfect for each other, most of them spend the weekend trying to play matchmaker. The two get so annoyed that they reach a truce and agree to pretend to be nauseatingly enamored just to get everyone off their backs. Even if you’re not familiar with the play, you’ve probably seen enough romantic comedies to know where this is going: their pretend banter will turn into real banter, which will lead to real feelings, which will lead to a real relationship, which they may or may not sabotage all over again. With the story so predictable, it’s up to the film’s humor to save it, with mixed results. Powell and Sweeney have undeniable chemistry and charm. I see bright futures for both of their careers, which hopefully means getting smarter scripts than this. The film makes the curious decision to take an R-rated route that I think makes it less endearing. I’m not saying that light, romantic comedies can’t be R-rated (off the top of my head, “When Harry Met Sally…” and Judd Apatow’s late-2000’s hot streak come to mind, and I don’t see those movies working without some R-rated elements), but this movie’s crudest jokes aren’t its best. With a PG-13 rating, it could have reached a wider audience that I don’t think was worth sacrificing for some ill-advised “edginess.” “Anyone but You” is bland and corny and the characters are idiots. Yet I have to admit that I was somewhat sucked into the movie by its end, largely owing to its absolutely correct assertion that “Unwritten” by Natasha Bedingfield is a perfect singalong song. Just don’t mistake this begrudging affection for the real affection I have for much better movies like “The Holdovers.” See that one instead if you can. Grade (for “Anyone but You”): C And while I’m here, Grade for “The Holdovers: A- “Anyone but You” is rated R for language throughout, sexual content and brief graphic nudity. Its running time is 103 minutes. Contact Bob Garver at rrg251@nyu.edu.

As a parent, we fear so many things while raising our children. We understand the underlying risks in most of our daily adventures, but we always think “not us” and we choose to live. We all do our best to teach our children to be safe in a world where bad and dangerous exsists; it comes with the parental roles: protect, teach, nurture, love and support. When your child has a disability or multiple disabilities, the fear grows. A nonvocal and/or nonverbal child, for example, can’t always share needed information to locate a family and they can’t yell “help”. They may not even understand that help is needed. When a child or an adult with a cognitive disability is lost or wanders too far, even if verbal and/or vocal, they may not be able to share needed information and will likely appear anxious from stimming. Stimming is also known as self-stimulating behaviors. Stimming is defined by the Oxford Dictionary as the repetitive performance of certain physical movements or vocalizations, as a form of behavior by persons with autism or other neurodevelopmental conditions; self-stimulation. This behavior is thought to serve a variety of functions, such as calming and expression of feelings. Children and adults with special needs, especially with Down syndrome or autism, have a high risk of wandering or elopement. Sometimes referred to as bolting. It is said that wandering is extremely typical in toddlers with Down syndrome, but may continue as they age, particularly if a dual diagnosis exists of both Down syndrome and autism together. Hudson has been dual diagnosed with both. Half of children with autism are wanderers, so this is very common. Noise levels can be triggering and the child may try to get away from it. It could be that they see something and they are determined to get closer. It could be that the child is spooked by something like the night sky, this happens to Hudson all the time. No matter the reason, half of the children with autism can easily become lost. Hudson is a runner, really a bolter, and Hudson is a seeker of water. He is also nonverbal. When a child becomes lost the risk of sever danger is great: drowning, running into a busy street, unable to hydrate, weather elements, and/or possible encounters with strangers or animals. If you live in areas with snakes, that’s a risk, too. Every second matters. As Hudson’s mom, it is my job to be as prepared as possible. Our home is safe and we have alarms and locks on every door. Our neighbors know Hudson. I take new photos almost daily. I work with him on swimming, but I’m unsure how he would be without me there. Even with all of these measures in place at home, well, they don’t apply in public spaces or even at friends homes. Daily living and travel have a new level of fear. Many families use GPS trackers to provide a sense of peace over their runners, but even GPS trackers in shoes won’t work if different shoes or no shoes are worn. Some use bracelets, but kids with sensory issues may not be able to tolerate wearing them. Even rain or a shower can feel like needles on the skin to some. Recently, Kayla, a 17 year old in Pennsylvania was dropped at school by her special needs bus… and the school was closed due to a smell reported the day before. She was missing for over 8 hours. Kayla even went in convenient stores with no help offered that was seen on surveillance cameras. She was found in downtown Pittsburg in cold temperatures, but she was reported to be okay. Yesterday, I was sent an article about a 4 year old with autism that went missing on January 12th. Phenix was missing for more than 24 hours. He was found because of over 100 volunteers who wouldn’t stop looking. The public knowing was everything in this search. I have a friend here locally who has several locks on their doors at home, but her son still gets out and has been found several miles from home. This has happened multiple times. She has locks high up, he gets a chair or a broom handle. She has GPS trackers, but he has to be wearing his belt or shoes. Her constant fear is heavy. I know a buddy in Jackson that has gotten out of his front door and his fence. He has gone missing several times. Luckily, neighbors know him and have helped. The panic can be heard in his mommas sweet voice. In Florida, another little buddy got out. Luckily, he ran the opposite direction of the pond and was found 8 houses down in the entry of a strangers home. Mom started swim lessons that week. She threw up for hours after he was found… she ran to the pond first and couldn’t stop thinking the worst. I have a friend that said she was in the ocean on vacation when she asked about her son… he was a mile down the beach in under 10 minutes time. After they loaded him, he was so frightened that he didn’t talk for hours. See, even a child that can speak, won’t always. At dinner the other evening, a stranger shared that his best friends son always gets away at Cruising the Coast. He knows several people and always finds a face that can help. What if he didn’t? There are 100,000 faces. However, he loves going and should be able to have fun. It is such a balance, that is why we, all families like mine” weigh the risk-benefit in everything we do. Sadly, a buddy up north, was found drowned in a pond. He was at his grandfathers house and no alarms told them he went outside. When they realized a back glass door was slimily cracked, they ran to find him. It was a family Christmas gathering a few years ago. Lastly, I have been on a cruise when a buddy got away from his family. I know the 600 people on board stop vacationing to help… they were Buddy Cruisers. No judgment, just complete understanding and determination to find him quickly. Blasts went out and everyone had this family… he was found safe. Over and over, this happens often. 70-90% of tragic deaths are caused by drowning when a special needs child wanders away. If you see us out, you’ll often see Hudson in his wheelchair. He can walk really well, but it is for his protection in public places. He doesn’t really walk, he runs. He does not look back to see if you’re with him. He won’t turn to his name being called. He is fast and he loves water. I know I am repeating myself, but it is important that you know many of our loved ones with Down syndrome, autism or are dual diagnosed are very similar the love for water… 70-90%!!! I share all of this, and I could share 100’s of stories about this, to say that there is something we can do to help families like mine. It is called a “PURPLE Alert”. You know about the “AMBER”, the “SILVER” and even the “BLUE”, now, it’s time to add the “PURPLE”. Florida already has the “PURPLE Alert” and it is written like this: PURPLE: For adults with mental or cognitive disabilities. I want to take Mississippi’s “PURPLE Alert” to the next level: As a single alert or can be in combination with “AMBER” or “SILVER”. Ours simply states: “Purple Alert; Establish as additional means to aid search of persons with cognitive disabilities.” When time matters, information received is everything. Cognitive disablities effect newborns to elders and this alert should be used to provide law enforcement and the public with needed vital information in the quickest manner. Saving our loved ones from the tragic outcomes comes down to time… and not much of it. What is a cognitive disability? “Cognitive disabilities” is a term that refers to a broad range of conditions that include intellectual disability, autism spectrum disorders, severe, persistent mental illness, brain injury, stroke, and Alzheimer's disease and other dementias. If Hudson was kidnapped, he takes food by a g-tube, he has daily medications and other life saving measures…. The abductor could not provide what my son needs. In an “AMBER” situation, the “PURPLE” added would be useful information. The same goes for a senior citizen with a cognitive disability… they can be abducted, especially for sexual abuse. These are all very hard conversations, but a “PURPLE Alert” is easy. It’s not reinventing the wheel, it’s adding a needed color to the wheel to provide information to help if needed. Pennsylvania is trying to get this alert now after what happened to Kayla. We should not wait for something to happen, because it already happens daily, you just don’t know about it. I have proudly teamed up with Representative Clay Mansell to drop a bill to add this to our alert system here in the great state of Mississippi. I, also, personally asked our governor (during his campaign stop here) to continue to help and support us as we make good needed changes for our friends with disabilities. Mississippi is a wonderful and safe home for ALL, and this simple change will bring some relief for families and it could save lives. This addition is a beautiful step to protecting our citizens, being a voice for those with no voice and protecting those who cannot understand the dangers out there.  EXTRA alerts can provide extra needed peace as we live our lives and do our best. EXTRA alerts will need YOU, should one be issued. Join me in getting the PURPLE Alert added to our Mississippi Alert System; we can easily add in protections like this to make Mississippi the gold standard for our loved ones and neighbors with cognitive disabilities. Call your local legislators and ask them to say YES! Community has the word “unity” in it,  and unity means joined as a whole.